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For those who don't know me, I'm a Melbourne based Escort, been in the industry for over 3years now & absolutely love it.  I actually did  it at first to cross off my sexual bucket list but after my very first encounter, my thought was 'Why didn't I frigging do this 2 years ago?'.

 I love the fact I get to meet, learn from and enjoy company extraordinary men, that I wouldn't otherwise meet. I get to travel the country doing what I love & see beautiful places. I'm also blessed to not only have these wonderful men in my life but most I consider friends.

I am openly Bisexual and have found my own niche where I cater for and play with lots of couples, and I get asked and do and arrange a lot of double bookings (FMF). I was first fascinated by girls at the age of 11, & saw my first girl on girl porno after 6months of marriage & I was totally hooked. From that moment until my first threesome and girl play, I fantasised about it every time I had sex & it would help me climax. It wasn't until 7yrs later that I had my first girl experience at a Melbourne brothel 'The Boardroom' & it blew my mind, I wanted so much more & more of her! From then till now, I have had some wonderful experiences & get to play with lots of girls. Even before I started working I had a couple of regular girlfriends i would play with, so I'm the real deal.

I have been a swinger for over 5 years now,  it’s a lifestyle choice which I enjoy and love being a part of. I have also been able to share this part of my life with others as it has very easily complimented and become a nice addition to my work as an escort. When I first started to mention my swinging activities to a few of my clients, to my surprise, I had also sparked their interest in wanting to try it out for themselves. Since then I have had the pleasure of taking a few clients with me and it has been such a joy to be able share the swinging experience with them.

As more and more inquiries come in and since I get asked quite often, thought it fitting to start up my first blog and give an insight into what has now become lifestyle choice of mine.

Eventually I would like to share the idea of free love in the form of swinging with all those who are curious.

If you would like to try swinging out for yourself who better to take you than someone already in the scene, who knows what’s on and where to go, what to do and what not to do. Perhaps even organise your very own private swingers a party. Pretty much someone who would make sure by the end of it you’ve had your minds blown amongst other things!

That would indeed be me  - Miss Kellie Blair

Mbiggest policy in life is to try everything once, if I like it then I'll do it again, if I don't then I won't. So I decided to do up my very own Sexual Bucket List, & I have since progressed right through it, having crossed off everything on it, including my very own orgy for my birthday (could be another story to tell), threesomes, foursomes, etc.

It all started after the break up of my marriage. Married for 11yrs, married early & straight from a very strict upbringing to a very controlling relationship. In a nutshell I wasn't happy & had depression, it wasn't until I went and saw my dad in recovery after a triple bi-pass that I thought 'Am I going to waste another 10yrs with him?' and  I called it quits. After a cervical cancer scare, it reinforced to me that life is short & to do what you what now as you may never get another opportunity, so this is motto I live my life by, enjoy it while you can. So newly single, and extremely horny decided to venture out on a dirty weekend alone and flew up to Sydney. During that weekend I had my first experience at a swingers club.

I attended two clubs that weekend, the first was on a Saturday night called 'The Lotus Lounge' where I could choose to to play with couples &  as well as girlsThis club which sadly no longer exists today. then Sunday night I visited 'The Couples Club', it’s one of Sydney’s oldest swingers club and is still my favourite place to play with lots of boys. To say I was on felt euphoric on cloud nine by the time I flew home on Monday was an understatement. To begin it all,  and my recent encounter last week in Sin City, which I will reveal in my next post.

I also discovered a few things about myself, that I got really turned on when I was being watched and desired by others. I found I also loved playing with more than one man at the same time & the whole concept of being in an orgy appealed to me, and coupled with  playing in the open, it was a massive turn on.

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Q & A

What I love about swinging?  The social aspect of the parties, I’ve been so fortunate to have made some wonderful friends through the parties over the years. Also being able to share great sexual experiences with some wonderful friends we’ve made through the scene, & also cross off a lot of things off my sexual bucket list. It's about like minded people who enjoy sex. Awesome.

Are there negatives?

Yes & if your feeling jealousy then this scene isn't for you. The green eyed monster raised its head a few times when I was married, he wanted another guy to join us, but even though it was his fantasy he kept getting jealous, accusing me of 'enjoying it more with him' etc & it progressively got worse and worse, it wasn't enjoyable anymore till eventually was the final straw for me, as he want to even control my pleasure. If you have a strong relationship & view it as pleasure in the moment, fulfil of fantasy then you will be fine.  I have some wonderful friends in the scene still together & swinging, and sadly some that haven't made it. I think that’s part of learning both about yourself and also the swinging scene, & also you learn so much about your relationship, trust and communication.

What is the biggest myth about swingers?  The biggest myth is that swingers are sleazy or deviates couldn’t be more further from the truth. Your best friend, boss, sister, cousin etc. could be involved in the scene. The media does portray it totally wrong also, and they don’t do their research very well & love to feed the stereotypes, exactly like what they do with Sex work. (eg. The Herman Rockefeller case, a perfect example. He was not a swinger, just a married man cheating on his wife).

Advise for first timers

If you want to try it with your partner then communicate with each other, be totally open and honest, that is most important. Work out whats important for both or you, your boundaries or rules & stick to them. When going to a party, never drink too much or take drugs, you’ll end up having a miserable time and won’t remember a thing, regardless of whether you join in the fun or not.

Common questions

“Do we have to join in or let other's join in?” No your in control, usually they will ask or touch you and wait for a response, if it's No then swingers are respectful of that and will stand back and watch, play next to you or find someone else. Even if you have let them play early and they want more, when you say no, they respect that. Also ALL clubs have the NO means NO policy and you will be asked to leave if you persist.  I have had a guy booted out early on in my experience because he wouldn't listen and was rough. As a single girl especially on extra guys night, you can find yourself surrounded by 5 or 6 plus if you let them, and it's reassuring that people are looking out for you.

“What type of people attend?” There isn't a type,  people that want to know the exact  age and size of people that attend. But there's no 'Type" and what you get on any particular night is a mixed bag. Your not going to be attracted or want to play with everyone so there will be someone for everyone & you will have fun, whether it's together in an orgy environment or playing with others once you relax.  There are no common backgrounds or traits etc for those that are swingers. There are people from all backgrounds, races and professions attend. Doctors, Academics, people in the legal profession (lawyers, police officers etc), teachers, truck drivers, business owners, architects, you name it. You can’t pigeon hole a swinger.

“What do we wear?” The sydney clubs provide you with lockers, with a sarong & a towel in it, in Melbourne the clubs have towels provided to use, but you bring lingerie to strip down into at the start, which is daunting for a first time or single girl, but everyone's in the same boat. I like to wear whatever I feel sexy in & heels.

What are some usual rules at these parties?  Usually no single men unless it is a guy night, some places will kick you out if your partner has disappeared and left and your now single.  Safe sex with all condoms and lube provided, no drug use, No means No I've mentioned above & to have fun and respect others.

Kellie xx

Kellie Blair - Melbourne Escort

Kellie Blair
Kellie Blair
Kellie Blair is PRIVATE Melbourne Escort for men, women and couples specialist. Impeccable reputation with over 45+ positive reviews since entering the industry in 2012. Genuinely bisexual, sexy and passionate.

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