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My life as swinger and escort

So my posts have sparked interest and intrigue, caused discussion, and maybe even de-mystified the swinging scene for you, which is great.  But I’ve been asked some interesting questions,  I thought maybe others had the same ones and therefore I would address the things you want to know about swinging and escorting.

Q. How do you not get attached to these people, after experiencing an awesome experience or event?

Well firstly, being a swinger, I’m able to detach feelings, from the act of having sex, and enjoy it for what it is. I’m able to be in moment, enjoy the act and most times not get attached to the person I’m with. When I set out on my discovery journey, long before escorting, I was newly single, with an insatiable appetite sex and didn’t want to commit to one bloke.  So I had 6 fuck buddies at the one time. Guys ask me why 6, well I would see each guy once every 2 weeks and with 6 it meant I could rotate them and have sex every second day. Yes like Samantha in ‘Sex and the City’ I learnt to fuck like a guy. Guys are so different to us girls, they can detach everything, enjoy the moment and go back to life like you didn’t even exist. Whereas us girls, we have to attach emotion to the act of sex, I’ve done this, been with a guy, thought we had a connection and then waited around, to then realise they had already moved on to the next conquest. This is why I found it such an easy transition into escorting.

My method I’ve used until now is I have to just find 1 thing in them that’s a deal breaker for me, just one, with escorting it’s usually ‘they are married’ or ‘he has a young family’, and I would never jeopardise that or ruin a marriage, therefore keeps those feelings in check and I can enjoy our time together without emotional hang ups.  However, you can't help who you fall in love with and you just have to deal with if and when it helps.

I never play with peoples emotions either, they will say they Love me and I will reply that you are in lust, a huge difference.  What we have in the bedroom is in moment and with each one I see the connection varies.  Some I consider lovers, friends, confidants, role models etc....they inspire me to be better and push myself to be what I can be, they believe in me and I feel loved, cherished and I'm very blessed. But am I in love with them? or do I ever need to tell them that for them to come back? No Never.  I would never play with someones heart like that, they know I care about them and the connection we have in the bedroom is wonderful but thats why they come to see me for great Sex, friendship without the head fuck. I respect the boundaries of our arrangement, just like i know they do with me.

Q. Why would you want to have sex for free with all those people, when you could be paid for it?

Well yeah true but it’s the group sex that I love, being part of it, being watched, being pleasured in so many combinations, being able to please so many. Just because I’m a sex worker doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy have sex or enjoy my sexuality and desires. Its actually because I have a healthy inhibited sex life that I’m able to be good at what I do, enjoy what I do, give pleasure without judgment. As what turns one person on may not be another’s cup of tea. There are all shades of vanilla through to chocolate with sex, this is why I never judge. Also just because I enjoy the swinging scene, or group sex it doesn’t mean I don’t love being with a man one on one, It is a completely different dynamic and level of intimacy. I don’t limit myself and open to all experiences, always try it and if I like it then I will do it again, if I don’t I won’t.

Q. Is there anything left on your Sexual bucket list?

To be honest there is couple of things on my there, an all girl orgy, which I hope to cross of in a couple of weeks and a gang bang. Being a perfectionist I need to control everything when my fantasy is played out, it has to match exactly the reel that runs in my head. So with my gang bang I want it to be all about me, no belittling or name calling etc. just 5 guys and me having an awesome experience. I will do it when the time is right. My all girl orgy fantasy, well maybe on the all bi-girl 3 day trip in Cairns, that this one may get crossed off the list, either way it will be a great experience.

Just because I may have crossed it off my list, it doesn’t mean I don’t want to experience it again and again. I love scenarios, chemistry is different with someone else, making me want to experience it again, having sex on a balcony in Paris is a different experience than doing it in Queens St Melbourne, I’ve done outdoor balcony sex but if you offered me Paris then Hell Yeah I’m there. So if you have a role play in mind or fantasy you want to experience then lets talk, I would love to make that happen for you. I get lots of joy from pleasing another person, so seeing your face after your first threesome, swingers, orgy etc. makes me happy. There’s more details about me and my services on my website. https://kellieblair.com/

Q. how do you have a relationship or find someone genuine in this environment?

Well to be honest, it's very difficult.  It's difficult to find someone who wants to be with you for you or is it what thrill you can provide. Being single as an escort and swinger, I find it very difficult to navigate and know exactly what they want without ruining anything that maybe genuine.  I give my heart very cautiously and just see what happens.  I've had my heart broken on a few occasions, and I guess thats life.  It's just makes you wiser and will appreciate the right person when they do come along.  But yes it's very hard to know whether is it the free sex, entry into the swinging world or they want you for you with all your hang ups.  I guess if you feel you have an amazing connection and feel you could have more, you just have to put your heart out there, otherwise you will never find love.  After all I am a romantic at heart, hopefully it will happen.

If there’s anything you want to ask me about swinging or escorting,  then just email me and I will give the most honest answer I can.

kellie@kellieblair.com

Kellie xx

Kellie Blair - Melbourne Escort

Kellie Blair
Kellie Blair
Kellie Blair is PRIVATE Melbourne Escort for men, women and couples specialist. Impeccable reputation with over 45+ positive reviews since entering the industry in 2012. Genuinely bisexual, sexy and passionate.

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